Kim Starts Looking for Jobs in Alabama
While communicating to me that we are pressing forward with our plans for moving to Minnesota, she was secretly trying to get a job in Alabama. She communicated this to a number of people, including neighbors, and my own family members, all with the same either sentiment or explicit statement to “fuck Brad, because it was…
Kim Requesting Affidavit from Dr. James (txt)
Kim requesting an affidavit from Dr. James
email_after_convo_re_sleeping_arrangement.pdf
Email from Kim on Dec 27th 2019, asking that we go to Dr. James office to discuss details around moving to MN, among other references to Dr. James office being a “safe space.” The very next session is on Feb 14th, and when she gets caught trying to insert this new “verbal abuse” narrative. Over…
Initial_back_and_forth_AL_Job.pdf
Kim giving me updates about her pursuit of a job in Alabama.
Kim Communicating Updates About Alabama Job (May, 2020)
On May 14th, Kim is communicating her progress in her plan to move with the kids to Alabama. I asked her to stop giving me these updates, so that I didn’t appear to be complicit with this decision, because I was not. I asked that these kinds of decisions relating to the kids be documented…
Conversations Following “Wellness Check” Text From Dr. James
Dr. James sends a “wellness check” text, which among other things asked that this “new narrative of abuse” not take hold before he had a chance to clinically diagnose it. I was taken aback by the mention of abuse, and asked Kim about it. After “assurances” that she had no idea what he was talking…
Kim Springs Her Plan to Move to Birmingham in Last Joint Session with Dr. James
Background We had been discussing plans to move to Minnesota as a part of this divorce. We had been discussing what timing would be best for the kids. We had disagreements about things, most notably how to determine the locale for the two houses that would be good for the kids, and acceptable to both…
Kim Reveals Her Plans to Move w/ Kids to Alabama
In a joint session with Dr. James, Kim reveals the plan she’d been hatching for months, to take a job in Birmingham, Alabama and take the kids with her. In this session, she revealed this plan, with bright red lipstick on, and a smile from ear to each (which I first thought was odd, then…
Kim Sharing w/ Others Her Alabama Plans
While we were discussing (and maintaining disagreements about) the details regarding our plans to move everyone to Minnesota as a part of the divorce process, Kim was telling many people (other than Brad) about plans she was making to try get a job in Birmingham, Alabama. Everyone who eventually told me about this, all included…