Kim Starts Looking for Jobs in Alabama
While communicating to me that we are pressing forward with our plans for moving to Minnesota, she was secretly trying to get a job in Alabama. She communicated this to a number of people, including neighbors, and my own family members, all with the same either sentiment or explicit statement to “fuck Brad, because it was…
Kim Requesting Affidavit from Dr. James (txt)
Kim requesting an affidavit from Dr. James
email_after_convo_re_sleeping_arrangement.pdf
Email from Kim on Dec 27th 2019, asking that we go to Dr. James office to discuss details around moving to MN, among other references to Dr. James office being a “safe space.” The very next session is on Feb 14th, and when she gets caught trying to insert this new “verbal abuse” narrative. Over…
Initial_back_and_forth_AL_Job.pdf
Kim giving me updates about her pursuit of a job in Alabama.
Phone Call 10/16/2020
A phone call following Kim’s recent (same day) progression with her mortgage. Now that she had an additional level of borrowing approval, she gets bolder and makes demands about her plans to take the children to St. Paul. [[ AUDIO ]] Need to cut into clips – file is too big.
Phone Calls RE: Custody on 9/14/2020
In our weekly call regarding the children, Kim starts her campaign to break the 50/50 arrangement that we had been operating under. She employs the various manipulative tactics that are seen throughout our interactions. Audio Summary Start Time Kim starts “primary caregiver” argument 02:40 Schools, etc. Including recap of past conversations. 14:11 Related: Kim’s Request…
Kim Communicating Updates About Alabama Job (May, 2020)
On May 14th, Kim is communicating her progress in her plan to move with the kids to Alabama. I asked her to stop giving me these updates, so that I didn’t appear to be complicit with this decision, because I was not. I asked that these kinds of decisions relating to the kids be documented…
Conversations Following “Wellness Check” Text From Dr. James
Dr. James sends a “wellness check” text, which among other things asked that this “new narrative of abuse” not take hold before he had a chance to clinically diagnose it. I was taken aback by the mention of abuse, and asked Kim about it. After “assurances” that she had no idea what he was talking…
Kim Springs Her Plan to Move to Birmingham in Last Joint Session with Dr. James
Background We had been discussing plans to move to Minnesota as a part of this divorce. We had been discussing what timing would be best for the kids. We had disagreements about things, most notably how to determine the locale for the two houses that would be good for the kids, and acceptable to both…
Kim Reveals Her Plans to Move w/ Kids to Alabama
In a joint session with Dr. James, Kim reveals the plan she’d been hatching for months, to take a job in Birmingham, Alabama and take the kids with her. In this session, she revealed this plan, with bright red lipstick on, and a smile from ear to each (which I first thought was odd, then…
Dinner with Minnesota Friends
We had dinner with a couple from Minnesota who had been staying with us for the weekend. We discussed a number of things, including plans for moving back to Minnesota. Kim’s Comments on Schools in the Twin Cities: She says the schools in the Minneapolis and St. Paul, are “just shit.” When our friend says,…
Kim Sharing w/ Others Her Alabama Plans
While we were discussing (and maintaining disagreements about) the details regarding our plans to move everyone to Minnesota as a part of the divorce process, Kim was telling many people (other than Brad) about plans she was making to try get a job in Birmingham, Alabama. Everyone who eventually told me about this, all included…
Brad and Kim Discuss Divorce and Moving to Minnesota
Brad and Kim realize the path forward would include divorce, and start talking about how to best plan for this for the children. Below is a summary of events related to this discussion as it related to moving to Minnesota. Brad and Kim Agree that Minnesota is the Logical Place to Move After discussion, Brad…
Brad Takes Job at Freddie Mac
Brad takes a job with Freddie Mac, because his role at Travelport required him to be in Atlanta. As Director of Systems Engineering, he had to be near the datacenter that runs the infrastructure he was responsible for. An opportunity came up with Freddie Mac, and the position was one of an individual contributor. In…
Sale of MN House
If we were discussing moving to MN and divorcing, why would we have sold the house at 399 Curtice St. in St. Paul? Kim took MN off the table when it suited her to do so, and then would bring it back on the table, as if it were always the plan. [[ LINK Sale…