Brad Learns of Kim’s Secret Plans for Taking a Job in Alabama
I learned of Kim communicating her intention to “surprise me,” with plans that she’d already have solidified for moving to Alabama for a job, despite no mention of this to me, and continuing to openly communicate our agreed upon plan for moving to Minnesota. Which, included Kim telling neighbors and friends before we had agreed…
Kim Requesting Affidavit from Dr. James (txt)
Kim requesting an affidavit from Dr. James
email_after_convo_re_sleeping_arrangement.pdf
Email from Kim on Dec 27th 2019, asking that we go to Dr. James office to discuss details around moving to MN, among other references to Dr. James office being a “safe space.” The very next session is on Feb 14th, and when she gets caught trying to insert this new “verbal abuse” narrative. Over…
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Despite having been terminated from therapy by Dr. James for her dishonesty and manipulation, Kim reaches out to Dr. James asking for an affidavit stating that he has knowledge of an agreement that Kim and I had about moving to Minnesota. The problem with this request is: She terminated from therapy and was told to…
Phone Call 10/16/2020
A phone call following Kim’s recent (same day) progression with her mortgage. Now that she had an additional level of borrowing approval, she gets bolder and makes demands about her plans to take the children to St. Paul. [[ AUDIO ]] Need to cut into clips – file is too big.
Phone Calls RE: Custody on 9/14/2020
In our weekly call regarding the children, Kim starts her campaign to break the 50/50 arrangement that we had been operating under. She employs the various manipulative tactics that are seen throughout our interactions. Audio Summary Start Time Kim starts “primary caregiver” argument 02:40 Schools, etc. Including recap of past conversations. 14:11 Related: Kim’s Request…
Kim Gets Terminated from Therapy (5/9/2020)
In the email thread relating to issues around discussions of moving (focused on Kim’s updates re: her attempts to move w/ kids to Alabama), Kim continues her narrative of “verbal abuse,” that she started in a therapy session on 2/14. Unbeknownst to me, she was trying to juggle two lies at the same time, and…
Kim Reveals Her Plans to Move w/ Kids to Alabama
In a joint session with Dr. James, Kim reveals the plan she’d been hatching for months, to take a job in Birmingham, Alabama and take the kids with her. In this session, she revealed this plan, with bright red lipstick on, and a smile from ear to each (which I first thought was odd, then…
Kim Discussing Head Trauma (11/08/2019 Dinner w/Friends)
At a dinner with friends visiting from Minnesota, Kim discusses her loss of smell due to a recent head trauma. She doesn’t know how it happened, just that she “woke up naked on the bed with her head bleeding,” and hasn’t regained her sense of smell since. She tells her friend how she’s “nearly burned…
Outline of My Concerns with Kim’s Personality and Parenting
By October 2019, Kim and I had made the decisions to “de-couple.” Until this point, I had to “hold back” my objections to Kim as a parent (or as a partner), because she had made it perfectly clear that she was willing to let a little spat escalate into a justifiable reason to breakup a household with two small children. I had conceded that I wouldn’t be happy with her as a partner, but was not going to personally allow “silly” arguments be the cause of a broken home for my two kids.
Below is an email to Dr. James that outlined some of my concerns with Kim as a parent, as a partner, and just as a decent person. I called out the use of profanity as a concern around the children, something that I had brought up a number of times. Just days later, that documented concern would come to a head when our 3yr old daughter corrected me to say “What the Fuck?” instead of “What in the world?”
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20200219_separation_basement.pdf
“separation arrangement is not working for me – I thought you would take some clothes and toiletries to the basement, and we wouldn’t see each other when we’re not with the kids.”